Eyes darting from one point to another, head tilted, body movement, hair, hands, fingers...
All these betray human behavior. For those who are able to identify, decipher and interpret these signs it is fairly easy to predict, or rather estimate what the person wants... But what the body and mind says, is not always what comes out of the mouth...
In more than one occasion I have been looked at with admiration or hatred, one is very close to the other, simply because I manage to do this. It turns out people are annoyed by it, which of course makes it all the more interesting and enjoyable for me. But I am baffled about one thing... What is the way to go if the verbally expressed opinion is in obvious, direct contrast with the bodily expressed desire?
I have an answer although it is mine to keep, but I am interested to hear opinions...
About Me
- superextreme
- Microcosm, Macrocosm
- Studied, working since I was 12 years old, I like changes, enjoy a good-whatever as long as it is good-and I am an adrenaline junky...I ve been called insane, mentally unstable, psychopath, sociopath, etc. and I have one thing to say: they are right! I am
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"if the verbally expressed opinion is in obvious, direct contrast with the bodily expressed desire?" You have to find your own way and fall in step...with both. Otherwise, in my opinion you'll loose your "mind". There is no one way or another for you to run into calm. Fighting with, is fighting yourself. I felt like this before and i stopped fighting myself and i feel much better.
Look right : masterpieces of literature, poetry etc. etc.
Now, look left : .....fucking LIES !!!
WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS.
Proud to be able to communicate by using a complicated system of grammar and structure...
Scared to death to admit what we really think and feel.....
Thank God we can speak and hide....
...from others and from ourselves. ....
Beautiful words chosen carefully, smart darts, fast and accurate to find their target. "Brilliant!!! They believed my fairytale, now they love me but, WHY does my heart feel so bad???" .
We hurt nobody but ourselves but, WHY do we feel quilty??
Nice words sound like awful screams in our minds (stop! my ears are bleeding, please stop!). It seems that words make our fears, desires and expectations stronger. They demand our lips to move in accordance with our body and mind. WHAT??? How can we do that??? Gosh, we are so weak, so afraid. We are just human beings!!!! We need safety and acceptance more than the air we breathe. We depend our miserable existence on our sweet little lies. Besides, people don't like the truth. It's too naked....
What can we do??? Good question!
I suppose that we should manage the body language (there are many interesting books in the market), wear sunglasses even at night (Eyes! these beautiful betrayers! If I wasn't afraid of the bad luck, I would definitely break these small mirrors of my soul) and spend our short life with the illusion that we can achieve the impossible: make our body and mind lie OR
Just beat our fears, expose ourselves, reveal our thoughts and feelings and not give a shit about what the others think of us.
Be yourself!!!
You are just a human being...
We all are and...
We all admire those who are strong enough to be what they really are...
No matter what we say...
Don't believe us...
We are such liars
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